The Art of Sharing

by Melissa on May 14, 2013

Finding myself with some extra time this afternoon, I thought I’d visit my favorite place to write – Cafe Mouse!

It’s been a little while since I’ve posted – not because I haven’t wanted to . . . but merely because the business of being a mom has taken priority.

And by the way – Happy Mothers Day to all of my mommy followers!  I hope your day was as magical as mine was!

First and foremost – Disney released some awesome discount deals that are now available to the general public – up to 30% off hotel rooms this summer and free dining in September.  If you were thinking about a trip, you should definitely check out the money savings!

Which leads me to my next topic . . . pricing out food for a trip.  In the midst of planning for our trip this summer, I was budgeting out meals for our family of 5 (2 adults, 3 children). In estimating the cost of lunch (nothing fancy, just counter service), I constantly arrived at the magical number range of $25.00-$30.00 (remember, we are a family of sharers so my husband and I can easily share an entrée during lunch.  See my earlier post “How Many Mickey Bars for $40″ for more money-saving tips on dining).

Fast forward to our trip to the zoo this past Sunday. We grabbed lunch there (it was Mothers Day, after all –  a “no-cooking, preparing or even thinking about making food” kind of day) and wouldn’t you know it . . . our total came to $25.00!

Huh.  Again, 2 kids meals, a slice of pizza and an adult entrée chicken salad.  More than enough for everyone to share.

Coincidence?? Nope – just reaffirmation that we often find ourselves over-buying food and wasting what we don’t eat.

The next time you are getting ready to order for your family – wondering if each person really needs a full “meal” at Disney, the zoo, or any place for that matter – try our approach to sharing and you might find yourself pocketing more money and wasting less food. (By the way, www.allears.net lists the menu for EVERY restaurant location at the Walt Disney World parks and hotels. It’s a great source for trying to gauge the money you’ll need for food during your trip).

Ok, on to the next topic – cheating on Disney.  Not that long ago, we were dining out with great friends of ours and talking about plans to visit family in Florida during Thanksgiving.  We are going to use this trip to “explore” other Orlando attractions and a stop at Disney is not in the plans (I know, I know, gasp!!!!!)

My friend’s husband chuckled as he said,  ”So, you are going to cheat on Disney??”  As I booked our hotel near Universal Studios last week, I can answer that question and with an emotional, “Yes.  Sadly, I feel EXACTLY like I am cheating on Disney!”  It’s the same feeling of guilt you get when you cheat on your favorite hairdresser – c’mon ladies, you know what I mean.

Believe me when I tell you that I am a creature of habit and breaking any routine is hard for me. I found myself frustrated trying to understand how the heck the whole ticketing system worked at Universal (wait, you have to PAY to get fast pass privileges?) Trying to decide whether it was worth staying at one of “their” hotels or not was just as agonizing (wait, can I still get a Mickey Mouse wake up call??)

In fact, I STILL have our reservations booked at the WDW Dolphin hotel, trying to convince myself that we will end up there in the end . . . the place we know, the park we love (ok, maybe I am being a little dramatic).

Sadly, I know I will not win this one. (And if my dear husband is reading this, I swear I will cancel that Dolphin reservation this week.)

At least I’ll have some great info to share with you come December – and instead of posting pictures with Pluto, I’ll just post a picture with Harry Potter (wait, there are no Harry Potter characters to pose next to???)

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If you could . . . . ?

by Melissa on April 12, 2013

If you could have dinner with one famous person, who would it be?  My youngest daughter asked me that question just the other day, along with a few other silly inquisitions (Yes, I would rather dance than sing on stage in front of 1,000 people . . . unless it’s karaoke and I’ve had a couple of glasses of wine).

We have all answered (or at least thought about) that famous dinner question at some point in our lives and not surprisingly my answer hasn’t changed in the past 25+ years.  I would most definitely choose to eat dinner with Walt Disney.

I have always had a deep admiration for Walt.  He was a fantastic dreamer  - and when I find myself wanting to choose the path of reality over the path of dreams, I think of him for inspiration.  I realize that instead of separating the two, I should try to connect them.  After all, Walt was living proof that dreams can become reality.

My daughter’s third grade class just ended their presentations of  biography book reports.  It brought back memories for me because I can vividly recall my grade school biography presentation on Walt Disney – even then, I was intrigued by him.  (My daughter chose Harry Houdini, by the way – wonder if she has future aspirations of being an escape artist?)

What better way to wrap up a week of biographies than by honoring my dinner date, Walt.  There are so many facts about Walt’s life that many people don’t know.  There is a fabulous biography written by Bob Thomas called “Walt Disney – An American Original.”  If you have any interest in Walt’s life, it’s a wonderful read.

For those who don’t know – Walt passed away a few years before Walt Disney World opened.  In fact, Walt’s brother Roy changed the name of the new resort from “Disney World” to “Walt Disney World” as a tribute to his brother.

Unfortunately, Roy also died less than 3 months after the park opened.  It is very sad that these two brothers did not get a chance to see the true impact of their dreams on all of us.

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Taking Time to Smell the Flowers

March 27, 2013

Everyone knows the old cliche – “Stop and Smell the Roses.” Unfortunately, we don’t always live by those words and life quickly passes us by. If we took some time to just slow down and appreciate the bits of beauty around us, the world would be a better place, don’t you think? We had the [...]

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Early to Bed? Early to Rise?

February 6, 2013

C’mon – you know the saying . . .  makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise. I recently thought about this quote when I was helping a friend plan their trip to Disney. Having not been in a few years, and planning a visit during a busier holiday weekend, they were in need of some [...]

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